You are having intercourse and you can tell that it won't be long before you reach your NUT.
A few ways to handle this are as follows:
If your lover is screaming "Don't stop I'm about to come", this is not the time for this technique, even if you want to last past her orgasm.
2. Stop, take a deep breath and, change positions. This will only work if you have been in one position for awhile. Also the best position to move to is her favorite, unless this was it! Then you might not want to change.
3. Pull out, take a deep breath, tell her how pretty her pussy is or how much you love her pussy, go down and kiss her or her pussy a few times, while you take a break.
4. Pull out, take deep breath, slide the shaft of your penis over her clitoris with a thrusting motion, and rub her clitoris with the head of your penis and/or playfully slap and tease her pussy with your penis, while you say something like "You like being naughty don't you, I love your naughty little pussy!" or some other verbiage that you come up with.. Be creative.
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Let's say your lover is going down on you and you are getting close, and you haven't had intercourse yet.
A few ways to handle this are as follows:
1. Say "baby, that feels so good, but I don't want to come yet!
Could you stop for a few seconds!"
Most women would be very happy to help you out, especially if your are with a steady lover.
2. Say " Ohh, God you are so good!, Come here!" and pull her up, take a deep breath and kiss her passionately during the 30 seconds or so..
This will only turn her on more and still give the break you needed..Then you can gently guide her back down there or move on to another activity. If you need even more of break you could suck on her nipples or go down her..
3. Pull her up and say " My Turn!" and go down on her while you take your needed break.
Very few women will argue with this request!
REAL TALK
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Here is a list of emotions that you can practice saying with the feeling of the emotion in your voice when you say it. To help you out a little, you might want to imagine a time when you experienced this emotion, and see what you saw, feel what you felt, and hear what you heard. Also make sure when you imagine this event that you're looking through your own eyes and not watching yourself.
Lastly think of a sound that might represent that emotion for you.
Curiosity
Lust
Sincerity
Love
Amazement
Excitement
Exhilaration
Happiness
Calm
Playful
Here's a list of words that would sound like what they mean
Huge
Gorgeous
Beautiful
Anticipation
Powerful
Tiny
Bright
Smooth
Rich
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There are five basic methods for kissing mouth to mouth, and
they apply as well when delivered to any part of the body. Lipping is the
kissing technique partners use to contact the soft, moist inside of each others
upper and lower lips, as well as the drier, rougher-textured outside. Tasting
uses the tongue to lick the lover's lips, to touch the inner cheek or explore
the upper palate or to caress the other's tongue. Love bites are little nibbles
on the inside and outside of the others lips. The sucking and blowing kisses
are a kind of inhalation and exhalation against the lover's lips or chakra
areas or across any expanse of skin.
An especially potent kiss is known as the kiss of the upper
lip. Your lover sucks gently on your upper lip, using his tongue and lips to
draw in on the frenulum, which stretches from the inside of the upper lip to
the point on the gum directly above the two front teeth.
As he sucks your upper lip, you suck his lower lip and
visualize the subtle channel that runs from the frenulum to your clitoris. Once
the channel opens as a conduit for sexual energy, you may be able to experience
deep clitoral stimulation-even orgasm from the kiss alone.
The receiving of kisses is as important as the giving of them. Remember that in conscious loving, partners continually change roles as active and receptive lovers, and it is suggested that you share these roles equally.
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An important element of Tantric sex is the concept of chakras, or disks of energy, that correspond to specific areas of the body; the base of the spine, the genitals, behind the navel, the heart, the throat, between the eyebrows and the crown of the head.
Each one of the seven chakras represents a different natural human desire—to possess, to copulate, to achieve, to love, to communicate, to understand, and finally to ascend; to exceed ourselves by touching God. The tantric way uses these natural urges in men and women as the basis for establishing a continuously passionate loving relationship.
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